On more than one occasion, I've been told something along the lines of "You don't even have to move, I just have to have you inside me to cum." While I appreciate the thought that my cock makes them feel really good, it's a little strange. There's a sense of "What you are doing is sort of meaningless, just be inside me." It's probably not how it's meant, but I still have thought it.
Either way, I'm happy that I'm getting people off, but it'd be nice if it were a combination of my cock and the fucking I do with it.
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1 week ago
well I hope they are able to cum pretty darn quickly then.....because I don't know about you Dave, but once I'm inside my cock can't stay motionless for very fucking long!
ReplyDelete@Anon - Yeah, that's a good point. Staying motionless is pretty difficult while inside a cute girl.
ReplyDeletewell anonymous that's where riding comes in handy
ReplyDeletedave- i don't cum very easily from sex, be happy to make you work for it :P
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yes, very true -e. hadn't thought about the being ridden angle....in that situation keeping my cock motionless would be much easier, not to mention satisfying!
ReplyDeleteHi Dave do you know how long it might take a woman to cum?? i hav dis girl who tells me i have neva satisfied her even though we hav sex 4 lik 45 minutes each time we get down to it??!!!How long can u go? and how can i mk myself stay hard for more than an hour?
ReplyDeletewould really love lots of answers
Big fan
@Anon - I'm going to assume that this comment is legit. Let's hope it is, because if I start getting a bunch of crap, I'll have to take away anon commenting, which will make everybody sad.
ReplyDeleteAnd before I answer your question, I have one for you... Why did you bring this to me? I thought my place in the sex blog world was "slutty guy who talks about stuff he's done..." but if for some reason, I'm a voice you relate to, here we go.
My understanding is that the female orgasm is tricky. Some women take a really long time, some are super fast. Some women have never experienced an orgasm, or only while doing it themselves. Some don't have orgasms during sex, but do at other times. I don't know what the answer for your girl is, but I recommend talking about it and experimentation.
How long can I go? Very.
How can you make yourself stay hard? Recreational Viagra.
Just a viewpoint from the female perspective: I sometimes cum just from having something hard (cock, dildo, fist, whatever) pressed against my cervix. Not repeatedly ramming it, just gentle pressure. This may be what they feel, if you're a rather well endowed guy, Dave, then this may be a new experience for some of your ladies... May also be the first time that some of them have felt greedy enough (and free enough) to want to just grind down and enjoy that sensation of something hard deep inside them... :) either way i really wouldn't knock it. maybe next time you're with the person (people) who told you that try a slow grinding deep inside her and see what her reaction is... :) that might help you overcome the feeling of you being a bit meaningless.
ReplyDeleteanon - again, the female perspective here... :) I come fast and hard, (and repeatedly!) lucky me! But only if the right things are done - otherwise you can be pumping away for hours and i don't feel a blessed thing. Again, i'm lucky in that i have a *very* good understanding of how i come, what has to happen and so on, and i'm not shy about relating that to my partners. but if the lady you're with is shy or doesn't have that same understanding then you're going to have to help her gain it. 45 minute relentless shagging - sorry, if that was going to get her somewhere, then it would've, by now. try oral sex. your fingers. talk to her while you do things, ask how they feel, but more importantly, listen to her body. if she responds, even a little bit, do it again. not continuously, do something else, then return to it. most ladies, their orgasm has to be built up to it, in the mind first, then in their bodies, gentle touch initially, then going firmer, then harder, then faster..
hope that helps!! Its good to see you back posting, Dave.... :)
Tis Anon here again..
ReplyDelete@Dave and Sexy amber
Thanks guys for d advice i tink makin her open up to me would be the best, cause frankly i hav started feelin bad and my confidence is really dropping bcos of dis girl. But from ur views i tink its somtin me and my girl has to work on 2geda..
@ Dave i asked your advice cos i feel u hav had lots of experience wit women and sex and mayb u handled somtin lik dis b4 and if u dont know ur stories mk u appear as d James Bond (Dave Bond)of sex lolllll
Thanks again 4 d replies
@SexyAmber - Well if that indeed is the case, and I'm helping people feel amazing in ways they usually or never do, then I'm very pleased about that.
ReplyDelete@Anon - Thank you. And I wish I were cool enough to be the James Bond of sex. If so, I'd have a much cooler car and have a great accent.
no comment on my challenge? :P
ReplyDelete@Anon - Is this: "dave- i don't cum very easily from sex, be happy to make you work for it :P" the challenge you are referring to?
ReplyDeleteyes, yes it is :P
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