I've told myself that I'm going to start posting more, even if it means taking ideas that don't have much direction or are incomplete. Last week I was going to post something about how much I like breasts, but stopped myself, as it really boiled down to just that. But this post has (slightly) more behind it.
This girl Jean that I've started fucking is sort of into me. I'm sort of into her too, which makes for a great combination of whenever we're in the same place, we both sort of want to fuck. We see each other socially, which is different for me. Most of the time I keep both parts of what I do separate. But when Jean came on to me, I wasn't about to say no.
It's awkward to "preach" in the bedroom, but I have to a certain extent. On one hand it seems a little presumptuous in thinking that I know more than somebody else. But on the other, I am a big slut, and I probably know more than most. About sexy time things. Other things, total crapshoot.
Jean likes (or at least claims to like) sucking my cock. She does a pretty good job, but has never gotten me off from it. I am notoriously difficult to get off orally, to the point where I'm generally very happy to receive a blow job, but I don't expect much from it. My guess is because most people don't practice.
Good oral practice will increase your stamina and technique. It's not necessarily easy to find, however. In the past, I have practiced on dildos (for guys) and fruit (for girls). I read somewhere that if you practice jabbing a piece of fruit with your tongue, it works the muscles, and makes them stronger. This may be total hogwash, but it sounded good, and at least increased my self-confidence.
Will Joan take the next step and practice herself? I really hope so, but I'm not crossing my fingers. Will I still fuck her despite her not? Yes I will.
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1 week ago
I'm like you Dave, rarely get off from a blowjob (unless there is some good hand action thrown in too)but I certainly still enjoy receiving them! Never had a bad one (does such a thing exist), just some that were better than some of the others!
ReplyDeleteI like to read what you write, even if your thoughts are incomplete, just like you like a blowjob even if it doesn't ultimately get you off. Just sayin'
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@Anon - Trust me, there are bad blowjobs. Be thankful you've not received one.
ReplyDelete@Rori - Thanks. I'm glad that point was caught. :)
I am so bloody glad you started posting again, honey, I'd almost given up on you... post whatever you damn well want ;)
ReplyDeleteDave - what would you say were good and bad blowjobs, the things that make good and bad BJs? I've been told different things by different guys, so its hard to tell.
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u get a bad blowjob when a babe is determined to get her whole tongue into ur lil pissy hole.. u can tease it but tryin to strect it with ur tongue??WTF??
ReplyDeletethen when she 4gets she got a dick in her mouth and thinks it sausages den decides it time to chew and swallow...Horror....
@anon - Thank you. :)
ReplyDelete@Amber - The past story I linked in this one (http://glimpsesofdave.blogspot.com/2009/10/one-of-greats.html) is a pretty good guide.
Anonymous: ooh, never fear. I'd never do all of THAT. the most I ever do with the pee hole is a little light tickling. I think the thing I do that most women don't (and this is kinda hard to describe) is to undulate my tongue and cheeks along the shaft, while holding the head at the back of my mouth/in my throat. it looks boring cos my head doesn't move much, but my tongue and mouth do all the work. Certainly seems to get guys off though - the most i ever did was 7 in a row, and that was fun!
ReplyDeleteDave: thanks for the link - as i said before, though, my own personal style seems to be quite different, even when i am doing a BJ as opposed to foreplay-style-oral. i have to say though that i do struggle to do that method with larger guys (widthways, not so much lengthways) so it may be that different sizes need different techniques. hmmmm. sounds like a research project.. ;) I'll letcha know how i get on with that one!
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@amber - Well, if you're ever looking for a research subject... ;)
ReplyDeleteDave.. ahhh.. and you would be the other side of the flippin' pond wouldn't you? arrggh.... ah well.. if you're ever visiting...
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@amber - I may be over there in the spring...
ReplyDeletewellllllllll now... THAT'S interesting.. :D I'll email you!
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