In response to: Gang Bang Curiosity

Naive London Girl posted this this other day, and it got me thinking about a gang bang I was in.  And since she was nice enough to ask some questions, I'll answer them here.



How do you decide which guy goes first?

We were in an over-priced, yet poorly decorated hotel room.  Peach floral print bedspread and matching carpet.  A double bed in the middle of the room.  The scent of abrasive cleaning fluids, masked with potpourri filled the air.  If not for the group of guys and a woman in various states of undress, the room could have been mistaken for a Better Homes and Gardens "before" picture from 1977.

The woman in question was Edwina.  Or Eddie, as her husband called her.  Eddie stood about 5'4, had long black hair that was messy and somewhat wavy.  She had small-ish breasts that weren't on speaking terms with gravity.  She and her husband lived in the suburbs, had kids, and did gang bangs for fun on the weekend.

Edwina stripped down to her black bra and panties, complete with thigh high stockings, garter belt, the whole nine yards.  Clearly these was her "slutting around" outfit, which may have been a little cliché, but was appropriate for the occasion.

She told us all to take off our clothes and stand around the bed.  We did.  She then knelt on the bed, and with a somewhat drunk/high smile on her face bent over and grabbed my hard cock.

So like in most situations, the female made the decision.

Do you have sex with each guy until he cums?

This little MILF, clearly in heat and living out her fantasy of being surrounded by hard guys, wanted my cock.  She found me on an adult dating site and responded to a picture of my dick that I had posted.  Our messages back and forth usually focused on her fascination with it.  What kind of condoms do you use?  Does it make anal sex difficult?  Do guys ever check you out at the gym?  Do you cum more than average?  On and on.  But nice to know that she was really into my cock at least.

But back to that night, after her lunge towards my cock and subsequent minute-long blow job, I start plowing away at her after donning a condom.  Surprisingly, her pussy is on the tight side despite having kids.  However due to the sort of strange scene, I wasn't getting off quickly.  Generally, I have pretty good control on when I get off.  There are certain situations that expedite this, but being in a room with several other strangers wasn't it.

I could tell that the other guys were getting anxious.  While Eddie was sucking on this one Latino guy, a few others were watching and idly stroking themselves, making sure to stay ready when called into action.

Five more minutes pass.  Eddie is really getting into it, and loses focus on the cock in her hand and in her mouth.  Her body hasn't exactly gone limp, but she's quite wrapped up in the moment.  I also realize that my orgasm isn't happening any time soon, but because I'm slightly sadistic, I was enjoying making the other guys wait.  A few more minutes pass, and Latino guy that was next to me taps me on the shoulder.  Since his blow job had stopped, he was in need of something.  And what the hell, he seemed nice enough and I could take a breather, so I let him start in.

So, no.  She didn't have sex with me until I came.

After the guy cums, how long do you wait until the next guy starts?

There was a guy there of Grecian descent who had been in several bangs with Edwina and her husband in the past, and was pretty comfortable with the scene.  He had a prominent brow and was fairly hairy, but Eddie was cool with him.  He spoke softly and carried a small stick that he was playing with in the corner as Latino guy fucked her.

Unlike me, however, Latino guy was pretty quick.  He came after about six or seven minutes of fucking, and made a big production of his impending orgasm.  Lots of grunting, exaggerated gestures... he wanted everybody to know he was going to be the first to cum in her dammit.

Gang bang situations have a lot of exhibitionism going on.  Many of the guys have the alpha-male vibe going on and need to find ways to assert their dominance, if only for a short while. This was Latino guy's way of doing it, which didn't bother me.

The added bonus of this display of masculinity was that the other guys knew it was about to be their turn.  Greek guy was literally standing right behind Latino guy when he came.  Had Greek guy sneezed and bent his knees, Latino guy easily could have been accidentally sodomized.  Luckily that didn't happen, because the vibe would have gotten ugly in a hurry, but he was next to take his crack at her.

So in this, and many other cases, the next guy starts in immediately.  Obviously, this depends on the number of guys at full mast around.



Is it vaginal intercourse only?

I've discussed my views on anal sex here, and don't want to tread on too much old territory. So in this case, like many others, I did not have anal sex with that woman.  And in this particular case, either the other guys in attendance shared my views, or had other views that ended up leading to the same place.  Now that I think about it, there could have been an email sent out that said something like "Eddie isn't into anal" and it would have been in one ear and out the other.  But I'll assume there wasn't.

So, in this case it was vaginal intercourse only but it doesn't have to be.  Again, it's up to the woman.




Are there such things as anal gang bangs?

Probably, but it'd take a certain kind of person to want one.  And my first thought is that certain kind of person is probably a guy.  I've heard sayings along the lines of "There is kink involving everything you can imagine," and without too much difficulty searching the web, this is usually the case.  So an anal gang bang, compared with some of the wacky shit people come up with, isn't really that far-fetched of an idea.

So, yes probably.  But you're a lot more likely to find one if you're the kind of guy who likes fucking guys.



Do all the guys use condoms?

I fucking hope so.  I'm excited that I got my first question for Ask Dave in my email box, and it sort of talks about this topic.  As far as I know, most gang bangs that take place have bangers who are not intimate with the bangee, and don't have a great level of trust.  They use condoms.  But then again, there are people who really fetishize cum as well as bareback fucking.  They wouldn't use condoms.  But the latter would be the exception to the rule.

So yeah, every gang bang that I've been a part of has had guys in condoms.



How many guys at most participate?

Every gang bang is different.  Bangers and bangees have widely different views on what makes for a pleasurable experience.  I've been involved in ones where the bangee is really into the "all holes filled" mentality, which is pretty hot.  And the bangers are usually into it.

Thinking along those lines, I wonder what the optimal number of bangers per bangee would be for a situation where the bangee wanted anal, oral and vaginal at one time.  Being that she would set up and be hot for said situation, I assume she'd want to be filled at all times.  Based on gang bang situations I've been a part of in the past, guys tend to last five to ten minutes on their first go 'round, and roughly double that in the second (if there is a second).

Bangee gets with the three guys to start.  Vaginal finishes in five minutes, anal in seven, hand in ten.  Assuming the other bangers are watching the action and getting turned on by this, they are very hard and ready to go when a spent banger is ready to tag out.  Thus, in a half hour, there are roughly six guys that get the vag, four anal, three hand.  13 guys in a half hour is probably a high guess, so I'll round down to ten, assuming some guys will prolong the experience and all that.

After about a half hour of continuous fucking, hydration is often needed.  So a mini-break would take place. After having blown their loads, half the guys would leave, and the other half would want to try other positions.  There would also probably be a few stragglers who were too shy to get in at the beginning, and they'll probably be first to bat after the mini-break.  Shy guys would then finish and quickly leave, and the bangee would take care of the rest of the guys who wanted seconds.  Then depending on the vibe, she may stay with one or a few of the guys after that.

So, given this situation, I'd say a dozen or so.  But I could see situations arise that could be as high as twenty, and as low as four or five.

What sort of guys enjoy gang bangs?

This is a great question and one that I wish I had a better answer to.  Hell, I'd watch a documentary about why guys got involved in gang bangs.  In the gang bang that I related, I'll talk about four guys and my guesses as to why they enjoy gang bangs.

Me: I really like fucking.  If that wasn't plainly obvious, read some back posts.  I also like getting in crazy situations that involve fucking.  I like doing sexual things that differ from the norm.  I enjoy exhibitionism.  I like sex in group situations.

Eddie's husband:  Seemed to almost be living vicariously through his wife.  Loved watching her get plowed.  Liked being high while doing so.  Probably needed a break from the day to day grind of living in the suburbs and dealing with kids.  His way of unwinding.

Latino guy:  From what I could tell, he was sort of in the same boat as me.  He sort of struck me as a Patrick Bateman type in that he would flex his biceps in the mirror, were there one next to the bed.  He was also very... clinical.  Kind of like he had a set amount of time he wanted to fuck, and he wanted to be clean and tidy (despite being in an orgy, go figure).  At one point he may have discovered that this was his kink, and he wants to take care of it as efficiently as possible.

Greek guy:  My guess is that this was his best shot at getting laid.  He wasn't particularly attractive, or bright.  Not much of a conversationalist.  But he didn't seem to have any problem achieving or maintaining an erection, nor did he have any problem being around other naked guys.

Like Rob Gordon said in High Fidelity (look, two references from movies that came out ten years ago in a row) "You have to punch your weight."  Greek guy wasn't a heavyweight.  Unless Greek chicks have a totally different set of parameters they use when deciding what makes a guy desirable, he probably didn't get much play.  But fucking a woman in a hotel room is often preferable to sitting at home with porn.  He realized this and did the best that he could with what he had.  He didn't last particularly long, and was at least polite.  If he came to the conclusion that is my hypothesis, then I give him all the credit in the world.